How to spice up a long-distance relationship
- XO
- Feb 6, 2018
- 3 min read
Are you worrying about your partner going away? And wondering how to keep the spark alive? We have three ways to spice up your relationship.
1. Sexting
Not sure what to say? Start of by telling your partner what you miss about them, for example, their 'soft lips' and 'smooth skin'. You can then step it up by describing all the things you are going to do to your partner when they get back. For example, 'I'll slowly make my way down your body, kissing you all over until your legs quiver and you're ready to take me'.
Feeling comfortable? Tell them where you want them to touch you - the more imaginary, the better ;)
Once you are comfortable with sexting you could move onto number 2.
2. FaceTime sex
Missing your partner and missing sex? Don't worry, FaceTime can fill the void. For this one, there must be a bit of thinking outside the box, you must be creative, relaxed and ready to communicate with your partner.
FaceTime sex can range from a strip tease to playfully touching yourself at the same time as your partner.
In order for you to not feel overly awkward, you should discuss beforehand with your partner what you are willing to do and not willing to do over the phone.
Some people find the first time to be a bit embarrassing and turn to a little dutch courage (maybe some vodka and lemonade, or rum and coke) which isn't a bad idea.
Here are a few ideas:
- As mentioned above, a strip tease is a great idea and a step up from sexting. Buying a new set of underwear and strutting your stuff around the room is enough for your partner to see what he/she has got awaiting them at home, and it's a reminder of how god damn hot you are ;)
- Playful touching is enough for your partner to get theirself going without you feeling too outside of your comfort zone. For women, playing with your boobs, rubbing your vagina and sucking your fingers is enough for your partner to get turned on and to set the tone.
Once the above steps are done, you can take on the 3rd option.
3. Pleasuring yourself
Okay, so this may feel weird, silly and genuinely something you're not used to doing, especially if your partner is continuously hitting it right and there has been no reason until now to pleasure yourself!
For the experts, who don't need any help, you will probably be okay with rubbing or fingering to bring yourself to an orgasm. But for those who want a quick fix, and a more interactive way to involve your partner in the process, BEHOLD... the remote control vibrator!
Did you have any idea that there are such items that allow your partner to decide on how slowly and quickly you will cum (brace yourself........) FROM THE OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD?!!!
Mind blown? This can be done through Bluetooth or by downloading an app.
Here are a few places to get a remote control vibrator:
One of the world's leading wireless sex toy brand - prepare to be amazed.
3. The above two are amazing as they provide an interactive experience that may just beat real sex! However, they are expensive. A cheaper option for those whose partner is away for only a few weeks/months can buy a normal vibrator from shops such as Love Honey or Ann Summers. Use it whilst on Facetime and you won't hear any complaints.
We hope our XO tips help you spice up your relationship, let us know what worked best for you on our comments section or tweet us: @xoonlinemag.
XO
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